Yeah I agree silence is probably just as bad, but I'm hoping self realisation hits home hard for the miscreants. I definitely won't see certain friends in the same way as before, never thought they were that selfish.I try to operate on the principle that everybody is just trying to do their best in the circumstances and that the benefit of the doubt can be afforded. But the mindless and flagrant behaviour exhibited by some runs contrary to that. It's hard to keep a level head when dealing with friends acting that way. As you say, nishy, chalking it up and taking a mental note is one thing, ive never thought of mysen as much of a preacher and don't really want to go for the holier than thou stance. I'm just not sure what good my silence does in these sorts of instances.
